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Definitions: General

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AC/DC : Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.

Anal : Anal penetration, also known as Anal intercourse; The act of the anus being penetrated by an object or penis. (Greek or Greek culture.)

Analingus : also known as Rim Job, it is oral stimulation of the anus and rim of the anus by a partner licking your partners anus opening and along the rim, or outside of the anus. Anallingus can also include light kissing, or mild sucking of the anus. Once performed the most common practice is the tongue moving in fast circular movements outside and even placing the tongue inside the anus to stimulate mood and heighten orgasms. ***

Bareback : Sex without a condom

Back Door : Anal sex

Badonkadonk: Big Jiggly, well formed ass.

BBC: Big Black Cock.

BBW : Big Beautiful Woman. Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

BHM : Big Handsome Man. Refers to a sexually attractive fat man that is large to extremely large. (See also BBW)

Bi : Bisexual: Versatile, Turned on by both sexes

Butt plug: Much like a dildo, but pear-shaped with a flared base. The flared base prevents the plug from being lost in the anal cavity; the pear shape helps hold the plug in place. They come in a variety of sizes.

Butterfly or modified missionary position : Woman on her back with her hips on the edge of the bed. Standing man places her legs over his shoulders and mounts her.

Canadian Ballet. A term for a strip club (Me and the boys are going to the Canadian Ballet tonight.)****

CD : Cross Dresser - A person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally referring to men that dress in women's clothes. Usually different that the drag sub-culture, Cross dressers are usually straight males.

Drag :

Cis / Cisgender / Cissexual: The opposite of Transexual - An individuals' experiences of their own gender match the sex they were assigned at birth, 

Cougar : An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

Cowgirl : Guy lays on his back. Girl straddles male facing forward and rocks back and forth, or bounces up and down. (See Reverse Cowgirl)

Cuckold: Historically referred to a husband with an adulterous wife, or a man who is unwittingley raising a child who is not his own. Recently it refers to a fetish where the husband gets off watching his wife being fucked by othe guys. May go so far as to have him eat the guys cum out of her pussy.

Dildo : An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. Also see Vibrator.

Doggy Style. Girl in on her hands and knees. Guy inserts from behind, either vaginally or anally.

Dogging: A Person who enjoys having sex in public, or someone who enjoys watching people have sex in public.

Down-Low: Usually referes to a 'straight' guy who usually has a heterosexual relationship with women, but enjoys sex with males. Usually kept a secret from friends and family.

Drag (queen). A male homosexual who dresses as a female. (See Cross dresser)

Dry Humping: Non penetrative sex. Rubbing your genitals against another person, either with or without clothes. Can end in orgasm, but not necessarily.

Erotic sexual denial: keeping another person aroused while delaying or preventing resolution of the feelings, to keep them in a continual state of anticipatory tension and inner conflict, and heightened sensitivity. (see also tease and denial and chastity).

Fetish : Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.

Fisting: the act of inserting your open hand or fist all the way into someone's ass or vagina.

Foot Job: Using your feet to masterbate your partner.

Frottage: Non penetrative sex. (Dry humping)

GILF Grandmother I'd Like (to) Fuck. An older grandmother who is still hot (say over 50ish)

Golden Shower: Urinating on someone for sexual gratification. Either on their body or in their mouth. (Loosely related to Brown Shower, or Scat Play)

Greek : Anal sex or anal intercourse. (See Anal)

Hand Job: Using your hand to masterbate your partner.

Head : Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head"

Horny : Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.

Hung : Refers to a male with a large penis. While there are no hard numbers to be considered hung, 7.5 inches in or longer is a good start.

Incest : Sexual activity between blood relatives. Highly frowned upon in the swinging community (and society as a whole).

Infantilism: Parent/child or parent/baby role playing.

Kama Sutra : Or: Kamasutra, the Indian manual of erotic love believed to have been written by the Hindu sage Vatsyayana sometime between the 3rd and 5th centuries AD, containing descriptions and illustrations of sexual-positions, recipes for aphrodisiacs, descriptions of ways of kissing and embracing a lover, and so on.

Leather : A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.

Lesbian : A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.

Marital Aids: Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

MILF : Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck. A sexually attractive female with children. Usually this is in reference to an older woman (age 30 - 50ish). Anything over might be a GILF.

Missionary Position: The girl lies on their back with legs apart, while the guy mounts her from on top, face to face. An alternate form could be to put the woman's legs over his shoulders. Can be used for Vaginal or anal sex.

Nudism / Naturism : The belief in or practice of going nude, especially in secluded, co-ed groups for reasons of health and comfort, not sexual stimulation.

Nyotaimori: Human sushi platters.

Orgy : Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.

Pedo / Pedophilia : Sexual interest in an underage partner. Highly frowned upon in the swinging community, society as a whole, and especially on this website.

Pegging : The act of intercourse where a woman inserts a strap-on dildo into the anus of a man.

Poppers: Amyl nitrite : A recreational drug used to create euphoria. Also used (especially in the gay community) as a muscle relaxer, often to make anal sex easier or less painful. Often sold in small brown glass containers. Usually not illegal. Originally sold as a treatment for angina, it was stored in little glass containers which made a popping sound when broken open to inhale.

Prostate Massage : When a sex partner inserts a finger in a male's anus and gently massages the prostate during fellatio or other sexual acts.

Reverse cowgirl : Guy lays on his back. Girl straddles male facing his feet and rocks back and forth, or bounces up and down. (See Cowgirl)

Rim Job : See Anallingus

Rubber : Condom as a means of contraception

Scat play: Feces play (Urine play is a Golden Shower)

Shrimping: Sucking on toes.

Six-Nine or 69: Simultaneous oral sex between two people, usually both partners laying side by side, or with one partner on top of the other.

Spoon Position: Girl lays on their side. Guy lays behind her and and enters from behind.

Strap-on: A Dildo attached to a harness, worn like a penis. Can be used by a female on another female, or a female on a male(see Pegging)

Tossing (someone's) salad - Oral stimulation of the anus and rim of the anus by a partner licking your partners anus opening and along the rim, or outside of the anus. See Anallingus. Eg: I can't wait to toss my wife's salad tonight.

Toys : Sexual aids, dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

Titty Fucking. Using your partners cleavage to masturbate with.

Twerk: A big jiggly butt.

Vanilla : The opposite of kinky. For example, a swinger might refer to a non swinging couple as vanilla. (comes from plain old vanilla ice cream). The term is sometimes used in a derogatory sense. Used in both swinger and BDSM communities.

Vibrator : Similar to a Dildo, a vibrator is an electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.

Voluptuous : Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.

Voyeur : A person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual acts.

Water Sports : Also referred to as a golden shower. Urination involving sexual stimulation.

Water Tight : Simultaneous vaginal ,anal and oral penetration. (with no holes open, she is water tight)